How To Escape From Headscissors

Calm after the storms.

Thanks friends, for phrases and affection demonstrated in this latest black hole in which they are dragged. Now
and 'round a bit' of relative calm.
I think he got tired of being locked in her room, reading and listening to music.
now no more, only 3 hours of temporary school in the afternoon, waiting to be transferred to the school in the morning, if you agree, no contact with old friends, no Facebook or e-mail or Internet, no mobile phone, tv with us.
We sold everything and we got rid of everything that we gave, to make them understand that every action has a consequence and she and 'responsible.
Before her birthday she contacted a friend of the pseudo-old school that said that the day after his imprisonment, the petty criminal, of which she believes to be madly in love (Romeo and Juliet, for instance) had already 'consulate with another girl ...
I tried to explain that at that age 'kids are like dogs:
mount anything breathe and live in the moment, they swear eternal love and after a minute run after other prey. What's the fun somewhat.
If nothing else seems to feel more 'close but I know that' one of his many masks.
The thing that scares me and 'that when it seems happy, helps at home, it seems kind and loving, it is usually a combination of some big, so instead of relaxing, I prepare for impact.
transfer in Italy is a bit 'comforting and this distracts from the monotony.
's sad to know that my daughter is unable to love, the hug when stiffens and tries to escape, find her in all the descriptions of children with RAD, except violence against animals or small children.
also saddens me that will live 'a life increasingly lonely and awkward, but I can not do anything, the damage for 9 years you can not' solve three years of therapy.
I just want to delude myself that in the past seven years my daughter has heard every now and then, a little 'happy and much loved.
The rest of his life and' only in his hands, I can only be a passive spectator.
I hope that my experience will serve as an example for people who jump in without thinking seriously about adopting all the risks and psychological damage that accompany it.
Love, unfortunately, is not 'sufficient in these cases. A
resent the next crisis ...